I was first introduced to Buddhism during a course in college on world religions. I was raised Lutheran but was so confused and questioning of it my entire childhood.

For Jude and Emma, Buddhism is not simply a practice that happens on the meditation cushion—it has become part of their marriage, parenting, careers, and everyday relationships. Raised in Catholic families in Kansas, their spiritual journeys gradually led them toward Buddhism, from early encounters with Zen to Tibetan Buddhist teachings, meditation, sangha, and the exploration of emptiness and interdependence. Over more than two decades of marriage, their Buddhist paths have evolved in different ways. Jude remains drawn to the discipline and simplicity of Zen alongside Tibetan Buddhist philosophy, while Emma finds meaning in mindfulness, community, and bringing Buddhist practice into ordinary human connection. Rather than pulling them apart, these differences have become part of their practice together. Through marriage, raising children, navigating careers, and confronting the inevitable conflicts of family life, Jude and Emma have discovered that some of Buddhism’s deepest teachings are revealed through relationship. Their story explores what it means to move Buddhist practice beyond the cushion—to see marriage as a practice of letting go, parenting as an opportunity for mindfulness, and interdependence not simply as Buddhist philosophy, but as something lived every day.

For Jogen, Zen Buddhism is not simply a meditation practice—it is a way of meeting life. Through monastic training, meditation, community, and the ordinary challenges of living alongside others, he has discovered that every moment can become part of the path. His journey reveals a Zen practice grounded in direct experience rather than belief, where transformation comes through consistency, patience, and a willingness to meet whatever arises. For those beginning their own Buddhist path, Jogen offers a simple reminder: don’t chase perfection or awakening. Practice, stay curious, find good teachers and community, and keep showing up. Over time, the distinction between life and practice begins to disappear.

Shinchok’s spiritual journey began with questioning. Raised Roman Catholic in a traditional Italian-American community in Springfield, Massachusetts, she challenged religious expectations from an early age and eventually left the Church while retaining an appreciation for the sense of community it offered. Her search led her through Zen, Hindu philosophy, meditation, Spiritualism, and an exploration of teachings surrounding death and consciousness. Eventually, Tibetan Buddhism opened another doorway, bringing together her longstanding curiosity about consciousness with a more disciplined contemplative path. Throughout her journey, Shinchok was less interested in accepting beliefs at face value than in discovering what could be known through direct experience. At the heart of Shinchok’s story is a lifelong search for an inner happiness that remains present beneath the changing conditions of anger, sadness, grief, and everyday life. Encounters with meditation masters helped convince her that this clarity was not simply an abstract spiritual idea, but something that could be embodied through sustained practice. Her journey reflects one of the central themes of Beyond the Cushion: spiritual practice becomes meaningful not simply because we inherit a tradition or believe its teachings, but because we test those teachings against our own experience and allow practice to transform how we meet our lives.

For Alex G, Buddhism is not something confined to the meditation cushion—it is a practice meant to be woven into every part of life. From discovering Buddhist teachings while studying at the University of Wisconsin–Madison to exploring different contemplative traditions and eventually committing more deeply to Mahamudra practice, Alex’s journey has been guided by curiosity, critical thinking, and direct experience. As a leader in sales and business development, Alex brings Buddhist principles into the pressures and relationships of professional life. Rather than seeing mindfulness as an escape from difficult situations, he uses practice to create space around them—to respond with greater clarity, compassion, and perspective. His approach reflects a central insight from his practice: external circumstances may not always be controllable, but how we meet them can be transformed. Alex also speaks to the importance of Sangha, retreat, teachers, and lineage. After years of exploration, he came to recognize that spiritual growth requires more than collecting experiences. At some point, exploration must give way to depth. For Alex, Buddhist practice is ultimately about developing the stability to remain present in the midst of life—to become, as he describes it, the “calm at the center of the storm.”

For Willy and Kim, Buddhism is not something practiced only on the meditation cushion—it is a path lived through relationship, creativity, community, and the challenges of everyday life. Willy’s journey began with a search that took him beyond intellectual knowledge, through India, encounters with spiritual teachers, and eventually into Tibetan Buddhism, where Ngöndro, Mahamudra, lineage, and Sangha became central to his practice. Kim’s path carries a different thread. Her earliest connection to Buddhism came through her Korean grandmother, but it was through art—and eventually her relationship with Willy—that Buddhism became a living spiritual practice. For Kim, creativity opens a doorway beyond the limited self, while Buddhist teachings on emptiness and impermanence offer a framework for understanding the freedom and possibility she encounters through art. Together, Willy and Kim reveal what happens when Buddhist practice enters the intimacy of a relationship. Meditation gives them space to step outside conflict, recognize habitual patterns, take responsibility for their actions, and remember that practice ultimately means learning how to benefit the person directly in front of you. Their story also speaks to the importance of Sangha as a mirror—one that keeps practice grounded, challenges the ego, and turns Buddhist teachings into something tested through real human relationships

Albert’s journey into Buddhism is a deeply personal story of identity, suffering, self-acceptance, and transformation. Growing up gay within a traditional Catholic culture in Mexico, Albert struggled to find a spiritual home where he could fully embrace who he was. Meditation became an early refuge—a practice he would eventually describe as his “North Star,” something he could return to when everything else felt uncertain. Years later, Albert discovered Pure Land Buddhism at the Buddhist Temple of Chicago and began to understand spirituality in an entirely different way. Rather than waiting for something outside himself to provide redemption, Buddhist practice taught him to look directly at his own mind, suffering, and capacity for compassion. Through meditation, Sangha, and his relationship with his teacher Richard, Albert gradually learned that practice was not about becoming someone else, but about learning to fully inhabit his own life. That realization eventually moved beyond the meditation cushion. Albert brought mindfulness into corporate environments, left a successful six-figure career to pursue work with greater social purpose, and began teaching meditation in ways accessible to modern practitioners. His story reveals Buddhism not as an escape from ordinary life, but as a way of meeting identity, work, relationships, suffering, and impermanence with greater awareness. For Albert, the fruit of practice is profoundly simple: learning to respect yourself, embrace your experience, and allow compassion to grow from the places that once caused the most pain.

Ani Palmo Lodro’s journey into Tibetan Buddhism began with a question many people eventually confront: Why, when we have everything we thought we wanted, can something still feel missing? After building a successful corporate life, Ani Lodro found herself facing a profound sense of emptiness that material success could not resolve. Her search for deeper meaning eventually led her to Tibetan Buddhism, the Kagyu lineage, and ultimately ordination as a Buddhist nun. Today, Ani Lodro lives and serves at a Tibetan Buddhist monastery and retreat center, where her understanding of practice has moved far beyond meditation alone. Monastic life taught her that awakening is found not only in silence and retreat, but in discipline, community, humility, and the ordinary acts of serving others. “I came here thinking I would spend my life in meditation. Instead, I found that true practice is in the daily, ordinary acts of service.”