When were you first exposed to dharma?

Grew up Jewish. Initially fascinated by the power of the mind, related to athletic performance.

Had interesting spiritual experiences but always felt a separation when i went back to normal life, when i left the retreat. I didn’t see a way to integrate it when im back home with my bud light drinking friends. Buddhism, and specifically Vajrayana Buddhism brings the idea that every single moment is an opportunity to work with our mind, no matter what is happening.

 

Which sangha do you normally attend?

Diamondway.org

What is your primary profession?

I run sales and business development for an energy analytics technology company. I hope that my practice has influenced my professional world. Fundamentally I work with people. Whether that is recruiting a new team member, training a new employee, talking with prospective customers and partners or building internal consensus around a strategic direction. Anytime we work with people, we have the potential to put our practice into action. Can i see this person on the highest level full of every potential, even when I disagree with them? This is not easy! Meditation practice gives us some space in our minds to be able to have freedom in the moment to decide what would be most beneficial for the relationship. We try to have a view based on the constant question: “What would bring the most benefit to the most amount of people for the longest amount of time?” I dont really see a separation between our budhist life and work life. Buddhism is a combination of methods to work with our minds to benefit others. Certainly the place where we spend 40 or 50 hours a week in, is a great place to put this into practice.

How has the path manifest in your daily experience?

For us, the cushion is the gym, it’s the laboratory. The buddha, our Lama says the world is a dream. Mind is space, it is radiant and indestructible and cant be harmed. If the practice doesn’t function in the world, what use is it?

Background

Alex, while a freshman at the University of Wisconsin Madison, reflected on a transformative experience at a lecture where he delved into various Buddhist practices and philosophies. Intrigued by the concepts of karma, control, and energy, he found the lifestyle associated with these teachings incredibly appealing. Emphasizing the vastness of Buddha’s teachings, Alex highlighted the 84,000 different aspects catering to diverse individuals.

For Alex, the karmic approach resonated, particularly focusing on desire types—those motivated by what they like. He expressed a preference for a lifestyle seamlessly integrated into everyday life, avoiding a disconnect between meditation and regular activities. Alex embraced the concept of tantra, emphasizing the incorporation of spiritual practices into every moment. He discussed the importance of holding a high-level view after meditation, seeing everything as perfect, pure, and full of potential. To him, recognizing the inherent Buddha nature in beings and appreciating the positive aspects of people’s lives were paramount.

Exploration

Alex emphasized the value of exploration in his spiritual journey, residing in Cambridge, Massachusetts, where numerous Buddhist centers offered diverse practices within a short distance. He appreciated Buddhism’s lack of enforced beliefs, citing the Buddha’s directive to question and verify rather than blindly accept teachings.

Maintaining critical thinking was crucial for Alex, especially in matters of spirituality. He believed in assessing different practices not only for their inherent value but also considering the qualities exhibited by those who had followed them for an extended period. For Alex, the depth of experience and the qualities cultivated were key factors in choosing a spiritual path.

Reflecting on his past experiences at the Omega Institute, where he explored various holistic practices, Alex acknowledged the temptation of jumping from one experience to another. However, he recognized the importance of depth in practice, shifting focus from mere experiences to identifying with the awareness behind them. This perspective, rooted in Buddhist and diving traditions, aimed at developing inner strength and resilience, especially in challenging life situations. Alex emphasized the need to drill deep in one point, likening it to tapping into an underground reservoir rather than skimming the surface with shallow wells. In his view, transformative power lay in sustained, focused exploration rather than the pursuit of fleeting and diverse experiences.

Alex lives in a Diamond Way
residential center in Boston.

Exploration

Alex emphasized the value of exploration in his spiritual journey, residing in Cambridge, Massachusetts, where numerous Buddhist centers offered diverse practices within a short distance. He appreciated Buddhism’s lack of enforced beliefs, citing the Buddha’s directive to question and verify rather than blindly accept teachings.

Maintaining critical thinking was crucial for Alex, especially in matters of spirituality. He believed in assessing different practices not only for their inherent value but also considering the qualities exhibited by those who had followed them for an extended period. For Alex, the depth of experience and the qualities cultivated were key factors in choosing a spiritual path.

Reflecting on his past experiences at the Omega Institute, where he explored various holistic practices, Alex acknowledged the temptation of jumping from one experience to another. However, he recognized the importance of depth in practice, shifting focus from mere experiences to identifying with the awareness behind them. This perspective, rooted in Buddhist and diving traditions, aimed at developing inner strength and resilience, especially in challenging life situations. Alex emphasized the need to drill deep in one point, likening it to tapping into an underground reservoir rather than skimming the surface with shallow wells. In his view, transformative power lay in sustained, focused exploration rather than the pursuit of fleeting and diverse experiences.

Communities

Alex discussed the structure of the Mahamudra community, highlighting the diverse models it adopts for practitioners to gather. The living center where Alex resides serves as a communal space, emphasizing its openness to friends and members for practice. The community places importance on shared activities like eating together, fostering connections, and providing mutual encouragement.

The Mahamudra community focuses on joy as a central aspect of its path, highlighting the importance of enjoyment in their spiritual journey. In this communal space, teachers, including their main teacher Lama, visit to share experiences and knowledge. The community hosts weekend courses with lectures, meditation sessions, and communal activities, steering away from silent, intensive retreats.

Alex also mentioned a retreat place in upstate New York, providing a deeper and more structured experience outside the city. The community acquired this retreat place after a lengthy search process. Additionally, there’s a center in Germany called the Europe Center, where practitioners from diamond groups across Europe gather. This international event involves various formats such as lectures, meditation sessions, and formal Buddhist empowerments, uniting members from around 45 countries in a focused and one-pointed approach to their spiritual practice.

Business Context

In discussing the work environment, Alex, as the lead in sales and business development, expressed the common challenge of taking things too seriously, especially in high-stress situations. He shared a perspective taught by his teacher Lama, emphasizing the importance of maintaining a higher view by never going below “how interesting,” even in the face of crises or pressure.

From a work context, Alex highlighted the need for distance and space to avoid getting too caught up in difficulties, emphasizing the importance of viewing challenges as games rather than defining oneself solely by job roles. He emphasized the idea of wearing different hats and playing roles without taking them too seriously, recognizing them as temporary.

Alex touched on compassion in the workplace, noting that compassion isn’t always soft but can be tough, requiring a balance between pushing and relaxing. Long-term thinking and considering the best interests of both individuals and the organization play a crucial role in making compassionate decisions in business.

The discussion delved into the challenging task of firing someone, and Alex suggested that maintaining a compassionate mindset involves considering the other person’s best interests. Even in difficult situations, having a peaceful mind allows for a broader view, guiding decisions that benefit individuals in the long term, even if the immediate circumstances are challenging.

Business Context

In discussing the work environment, Alex, as the lead in sales and business development, expressed the common challenge of taking things too seriously, especially in high-stress situations. He shared a perspective taught by his teacher Lama, emphasizing the importance of maintaining a higher view by never going below “how interesting,” even in the face of crises or pressure.

From a work context, Alex highlighted the need for distance and space to avoid getting too caught up in difficulties, emphasizing the importance of viewing challenges as games rather than defining oneself solely by job roles. He emphasized the idea of wearing different hats and playing roles without taking them too seriously, recognizing them as temporary.

Alex touched on compassion in the workplace, noting that compassion isn’t always soft but can be tough, requiring a balance between pushing and relaxing. Long-term thinking and considering the best interests of both individuals and the organization play a crucial role in making compassionate decisions in business.

The discussion delved into the challenging task of firing someone, and Alex suggested that maintaining a compassionate mindset involves considering the other person’s best interests. Even in difficult situations, having a peaceful mind allows for a broader view, guiding decisions that benefit individuals in the long term, even if the immediate circumstances are challenging.

Relationships

In contemplating his spiritual practice, Alex discussed its impact on relationships, particularly in a work context. He emphasized the importance of maintaining a perspective that sees people’s potential and views them on a high level. This approach influences how he interacts with employees, partners, and others in professional settings.

Alex highlighted the goal of creating mental space to navigate interpersonal dynamics effectively. He acknowledged the value of liking and appreciating people, believing that a positive mindset enhances his ability to be helpful to others. In the context of work, he saw it as an excellent opportunity to practice viewing individuals with a sense of upliftment, even in challenging situations.

While recognizing mistakes and areas for improvement, Alex emphasized the need to avoid defining a person solely by their flaws. He suggested that, in his practice, he seeks to see beyond mistakes, understanding that they don’t represent the complete picture of an individual’s capabilities or worth.

Retreats

For Alex, the experience of participating in retreats is enriching and particularly significant when it involves connecting with the teacher, a crucial aspect in their Buddhist practice. In their school of Buddhism, the practice revolves around guru yoga meditations and the method of identification, with the teacher playing a central role. Retreats provide an opportunity for Alex to deepen their practice and reconnect with the teacher, who holds great importance in their tradition.

To illustrate the impact of spending time with the teacher, Alex shared a friend’s story. The friend, excited to pick up the teacher at the airport, accidentally slammed the car door on the teacher’s head. Instead of reacting negatively, the teacher responded with immediate positivity, seeing the incident as amazing. This exemplifies the power of being in the presence of someone who has practiced and realized the teachings, demonstrating the possibility of maintaining a calm and positive mindset even in challenging situations.

The story illustrates the transformative influence of spending time with a teacher who embodies the teachings, emphasizing the practical application of Buddhist ideals in daily life. It reinforces the idea that through such experiences, individuals can witness and be inspired by the potential to overcome disturbing emotions and approach life with a broader perspective, focusing on benefiting others rather than getting caught up in personal issues.

Sanghas

Alex highlighted the significance of Sangha, a community of practitioners, in their spiritual practice. Within this community, Alex emphasized the importance of being able to witness and learn from others who embody the qualities they aspire to achieve, such as fearlessness, compassion, and joy. The collective nature of the group provides a supportive environment where individuals can see these qualities reflected in their peers.

Friendship within the community holds great importance for Alex, with the belief that friends can serve as mirrors for each other. They can offer different perspectives, especially in challenging situations, helping to shift one’s perception and recognize that there is more to learn and develop from the given circumstances.

The community serves as a motivational force for Alex to maintain their daily practice. The shared commitment to meditation and the collective mindset of working towards personal and collective betterment provide a strong foundation for their spiritual journey. The communal aspect not only helps in individual development but also fosters a sense of working together to benefit both oneself and others.

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